Tips for reducing sexual Boredom
I am a responsible man whose intention is to strengthen the home front.The truth is that not everybody feel the same way about me.so no hard feelings towards those who sees me as a sex "nympho"and those who quarrel with me for being who I am.
so my apologies goes to those who are offended for being who I am or for talking about sex the way I do.
It is a know fact that marriages and relationships suffer burnout due to the challenges of life especially in the area of career and parenting.This burn out is usually responsible for sexual boredom that couples experience overtime,thereby taking its tool on their intimacy.As a result many couples drift apart to the point that they live as cat and mouse in the home and play hide and seek game with one another.
Eventually leading to serious complications separation and divorce.
l am convinced that if couples go back to certain go back to certain romantic mannerisms they enjoyed during their honeymoon and the intimacy they shared when they newly got married,their relationship will live the happily together hereafter dream.
In some marriages after some years things start changing because of stress or career meeting financial obligations,eventually the ones happy couples start experiencing cracks,no more hugging,kissing complimenting . each others and no more sex..even if there is,it is not with the same passion.
Here are some tips that can help reduce sexual boredom among couples,as they try to merge tenderness to sexual heat.
These tips allows couples to play together and there by see themselves as objects of love,deserving the right to enjoy life together.they soon discover that what start as a gentle play can easily become deliciously hot,leading to passionate expressions for the couples.
Teasing each other.
couples need to understand that treasing is a great way of building that romantic feeling of passion and it can also give way to a wonderful laugh time experience.
The starting point is that you take off your dresses and lay down or stand together walking around the house,with one partner running his or her fingers slowly just above his or her skin,you can move from the hair down through the face neck and the entire body,occasionally breathing on each other's body .Let this continue till you are breathing heavily ,as the feeling increases you can no longer wait for the full length of love making....I this point,neither of you will be unwilling to enjoy that feeling of love that will follow.
Light touch game
You may also experiment with a light touch game on non-sexual parts of the body such as the palms,neck,face,thighs,ending with leg romance,take turns to concentrate on the love you have for each other,allowing your arousal to rise naturally from your affection for each other.looking into each other's eyes with giggling signals can spark up fire.
which only love making can quench.Continue this game of games touch until you get to this point of no return where you have given your passion enough time to build.
Body massage
Massaging is another is great way to get turned up for erotic passion,though it also helps in building intimacy between the couples.connect to the beauty of your partners body as you apply scented oil to increase your sensuality.you can even imagine yourself as sculpture creating a body with clay.As you rub,tell your partner what you love about his or her body.
For example talk about the curves that turn you on or the muscles that thrills you.
sure,a great rub down on the body will put anyone in the mood though that should not be the only reason for a good massage treatment for your spouse.By exploring each other's needs through the selfless act of massage,you can learn how to make each other melt physically and emotionally.
With massage you gain you can create a new understanding of how to create intimacy,let go of tension and go from a state of defense to a place that is safe.
couples must focus on areas that hold the most tension,for men that is the lower back while women the neck and the shoulders Be generous with your partner.It costs nothing,you don't need a professional,if you spend time with your partners body you will get results.
Moisturizing your partner's body.
Moisturizing lotion can be very sensual and sexy.so learn to apply the lotion on your partners body in a sensual way,especially in the shower such that you can watch liquid drip down over the hills and valleys.so you can rob the lotion into your partners skin with every part of your body except the hands.I bet this sensual and play act can lead to passionate experience,if you allow it.
Shower play.
Shower play can also be employed in killing sexual boredom.I am quite such most couples can't remember the last time they where in birth together.If this is your story then am not surprised about your frequent feeling of boredom with your spouse.Shower play is one that gives great fun and pleasure for couples and you may not appreciate what you are missing without it.until you try it. As you stand in the shower splash water on each other,put soap on each other head and back,wash each others back and engage in general silliness.If it does not lead to love making don't worry. you are still connecting to each other,growing intimately
Food fight.
Lastly,you can feed each other later have food fight.Dish your food in the same plate with plenty of fish and meat and see who will take the larger portion.This will lead to the holding of each others hands to see to it that your partner does not outwit you.you gentle give each other restraining touches,enabling passion to build up,If you like melted ice cream and chocolate,you can feed each other and to drive yourselves further into erotic pleasure take off you clothes ...your male partner can pour some ice cream on your breast and then start licking the ice cream on her breast sensualy around the nipples,your woman can also pour ice cream on your lower abdomen and lick him,you will both enjoy the coolness of the ice cream and the warmth of each other's tongues and breath.you will be surprised the kind of feeling you get from this simple act of romance.
Before some of you crucify me as to where you will have the time for all this playfulness,you have to understand that these are the only avenues for expressing your love on special occasion,such as anniversary Valentine's day....It is also good as a therapy to kill sexual boredom and put the spark back in your sexual experience and marriage.
I strongly recommend this for couples experiencing burn out in their relationship and those separated and trying to stage a comeback to live happily together hereafter.you will forever be grateful for having read this piece.
which ever way you want to apply this information I guarantee you a life long experience of great intimacy on every side,A trial will convince you.
To say the facts people have problems in their marriage and also have sex problems that they sincerely yarn for answers to and somebody must help them out.
so my apologies goes to those who are offended for being who I am or for talking about sex the way I do.
It is a know fact that marriages and relationships suffer burnout due to the challenges of life especially in the area of career and parenting.This burn out is usually responsible for sexual boredom that couples experience overtime,thereby taking its tool on their intimacy.As a result many couples drift apart to the point that they live as cat and mouse in the home and play hide and seek game with one another.
Eventually leading to serious complications separation and divorce.
l am convinced that if couples go back to certain go back to certain romantic mannerisms they enjoyed during their honeymoon and the intimacy they shared when they newly got married,their relationship will live the happily together hereafter dream.
In some marriages after some years things start changing because of stress or career meeting financial obligations,eventually the ones happy couples start experiencing cracks,no more hugging,kissing complimenting . each others and no more sex..even if there is,it is not with the same passion.
Here are some tips that can help reduce sexual boredom among couples,as they try to merge tenderness to sexual heat.
These tips allows couples to play together and there by see themselves as objects of love,deserving the right to enjoy life together.they soon discover that what start as a gentle play can easily become deliciously hot,leading to passionate expressions for the couples.
Teasing each other.
couples need to understand that treasing is a great way of building that romantic feeling of passion and it can also give way to a wonderful laugh time experience.
The starting point is that you take off your dresses and lay down or stand together walking around the house,with one partner running his or her fingers slowly just above his or her skin,you can move from the hair down through the face neck and the entire body,occasionally breathing on each other's body .Let this continue till you are breathing heavily ,as the feeling increases you can no longer wait for the full length of love making....I this point,neither of you will be unwilling to enjoy that feeling of love that will follow.
Light touch game
You may also experiment with a light touch game on non-sexual parts of the body such as the palms,neck,face,thighs,ending with leg romance,take turns to concentrate on the love you have for each other,allowing your arousal to rise naturally from your affection for each other.looking into each other's eyes with giggling signals can spark up fire.
which only love making can quench.Continue this game of games touch until you get to this point of no return where you have given your passion enough time to build.
Body massage
Massaging is another is great way to get turned up for erotic passion,though it also helps in building intimacy between the couples.connect to the beauty of your partners body as you apply scented oil to increase your sensuality.you can even imagine yourself as sculpture creating a body with clay.As you rub,tell your partner what you love about his or her body.
For example talk about the curves that turn you on or the muscles that thrills you.
sure,a great rub down on the body will put anyone in the mood though that should not be the only reason for a good massage treatment for your spouse.By exploring each other's needs through the selfless act of massage,you can learn how to make each other melt physically and emotionally.
With massage you gain you can create a new understanding of how to create intimacy,let go of tension and go from a state of defense to a place that is safe.
couples must focus on areas that hold the most tension,for men that is the lower back while women the neck and the shoulders Be generous with your partner.It costs nothing,you don't need a professional,if you spend time with your partners body you will get results.
Moisturizing your partner's body.
Moisturizing lotion can be very sensual and sexy.so learn to apply the lotion on your partners body in a sensual way,especially in the shower such that you can watch liquid drip down over the hills and valleys.so you can rob the lotion into your partners skin with every part of your body except the hands.I bet this sensual and play act can lead to passionate experience,if you allow it.
Shower play.
Shower play can also be employed in killing sexual boredom.I am quite such most couples can't remember the last time they where in birth together.If this is your story then am not surprised about your frequent feeling of boredom with your spouse.Shower play is one that gives great fun and pleasure for couples and you may not appreciate what you are missing without it.until you try it. As you stand in the shower splash water on each other,put soap on each other head and back,wash each others back and engage in general silliness.If it does not lead to love making don't worry. you are still connecting to each other,growing intimately
Food fight.
Lastly,you can feed each other later have food fight.Dish your food in the same plate with plenty of fish and meat and see who will take the larger portion.This will lead to the holding of each others hands to see to it that your partner does not outwit you.you gentle give each other restraining touches,enabling passion to build up,If you like melted ice cream and chocolate,you can feed each other and to drive yourselves further into erotic pleasure take off you clothes ...your male partner can pour some ice cream on your breast and then start licking the ice cream on her breast sensualy around the nipples,your woman can also pour ice cream on your lower abdomen and lick him,you will both enjoy the coolness of the ice cream and the warmth of each other's tongues and breath.you will be surprised the kind of feeling you get from this simple act of romance.
Before some of you crucify me as to where you will have the time for all this playfulness,you have to understand that these are the only avenues for expressing your love on special occasion,such as anniversary Valentine's day....It is also good as a therapy to kill sexual boredom and put the spark back in your sexual experience and marriage.
I strongly recommend this for couples experiencing burn out in their relationship and those separated and trying to stage a comeback to live happily together hereafter.you will forever be grateful for having read this piece.
which ever way you want to apply this information I guarantee you a life long experience of great intimacy on every side,A trial will convince you.
