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 Living in an unhappy marriage is a very personal decision And as long as the marriage isn't abusive and partners are reasonably respectful of one another, it can actually work for some couples . Conflict in a relationship can lead to damaging responses in the body such as inflammation, changes in appetite and increased release of stress hormones, all of which can affect numerous aspects of health ranging from heart function to the immune system.   Research found out that many young Unhappy marri ed  couples who stayed together were happy five years later. Those who divorced were not happier than those  who stayed together. 70% of those who did not wait but remarried shortly after their divorce are happy ever after.  Couples that don't talk or communicate in any form will eventually fall apart.communication is crucial in a relationship. It is possible to be happy in a loveless marriage . After all, marriage is about family and not just your partner. A perso...

 What is love.  Love is an intense feeling or affection for another person. i t i s an emotion that keeps people bonded and committed to one another. A loveless marriage is a relationship in which one or both partners do not feel in love .  Instead of being romantic lovers, they often feel more like roommates or siblings. Being in a loveless marriage often breeds isolation, resentment, and hopelessness. I pity such people because LOVE IS A KILLER..YES .. LOVE have consumed many souls. Love have ended the lives of many who lived in abusive relationship and kept quiet believing things will get better. Love have ended the Life of many who were killed by their lovers for cheating on them.. In some of my earlier publications l had written notes on why I believe love is a killer if not properly handled.  Living in a loveless relationship is as bad as drinking alcohol, smoking and taking hard drugs all at the same time...it is very very unhealthy such person will not h...

Once upon a time there was this young man who was desperately in love with a lady. He decided he will marry this lady,fortunately for him after much pressure  they started dating. But unfortunately for the lady her man had erection problems, he could not have sex with a woman, he did not know that he had a serious problem. Since as Christians no sex before marriage. Eventually after the wedding night and several months past this man was unable to perform one of his most important duties as husband. There was an uproar between the couples the lady believed he knew all along about this problem but was wicked and keep quite about it.... Many of such cases is prevalent in our society today. This is the reason why some people have been suggesting  sex before marriage.  A Ghanaian lawyer has openly been advocating for sex before marriage. According to a private legal practitioner, Margaret Acheampong...

There are affairs and relationship. Everyone of  them is different, and each journey is unique, but most love stories will go through these 10 phases at one point or another. 1. The pleasure meeting you. At the movies,party,place of work campus,on flight,where ever the meet-cute is the first time two people meet. Maybe it goes somewhere right then, maybe it doesn’t and maybe it isn’t even cute, but the meet-cute is something you will always remember because it is the first time you laid eyes on him or her. or could talk to that crush ....Nice meeting you. but you have been thinking of this new found love. Advertisement 2. The “get to know you” phase This is the stage where he can do nothing wrong in your eyes and vice versa. It is a perfect world full of excitement, questions and firsts. 3. Being inseparable The timid world of texting, flirting and playing the dating game comes to an end and the two of you are now inseparable. You don’t have to call him on Monday t...

What is kissing  💋 It is the art of pressing one's lips against another person in a passionate way. Kissing is sensual and romantic and it keeps people together. It is not a common practice in some African cultures. Kissing isn’t always about smacking your lips together and sharing saliva … no, there is so much more to kissing than that. So, what is it that makes for an exquisite kiss between two lovers? Is it the actual technique? Is it the energy exchange? Is it fast & passionate, or slow and lingering … or somewhere in-between?or simply..... Show of affection between siblings.  Kisses are wayyyyyyy more enjoyable than others. Yes, it does take two to tango but kissing is foreign to us Africans it is a borrowed culture. Kissing can also  be deceptive. ln our society today deception is the order of the day. People kiss and show fake affection just to achieve their shelfish ambition male and female inclusive. It starts with a kiss. Types of kisses. ...

 Ladies there some men you should try as much as possible to avoid if you don't want to experience heart break and disappointments. There are a lot of guys out there with commitment issues. And if you're dating one of them, it's no good for you. Your relationship is going nowhere The sooner you realize this, the sooner you'll experience  real happiness and love. Below is a list of guys that no one (of any age) shouldn’t spend a second with once you figure them out. Don’t try to change them. Don't try to help them overcome their commitment phobia. Instead, just run! Run as fast as you can, After all, the more time you spend with the wrong person, the more time it will take you to meet the right person.but to my personal experience some ladies don't like nice guys, they prefer playboys and rough guys that will manhandle and disappoint them,they will start crying out loud that are bad, irresponsible and not ready for commitment. These are the five types...

Couples who continuously disagree have poorer health.   A man sleeping in bed with an unhappy woman,sleeping with backs turn against each other or the woman sleeping on the couch is an example of an unhappy relation. A bad marriage, with frequent conflicts, could be as detrimental to your health as smoking cigarettes or drinking alcohol.  Disagreeing over multiple topics – such as children, money, in-laws and leisure activities – had negative health implications. I followed married couples over the first 16 years of marriage and compared the subjective health of wives and husbands who reported a greater number of conflict topics to those who reported fewer,” Marital conflict negatively affected health for both husbands and wives, although there was a greater impact of conflict on men than women. Couples who agreed with each other more experienced health benefits early in their relationships, but this protective effect most often wore off in the later years of...

 An adage says, “Show me your friends, and I’ll show you who you are.” Birds of the same feather folk together.  People who have friends who are incarcerated are more likely to get arrested themselves. Simply put, you are who you hang out with — and there’s nothing wrong with judging someone by their entourage. Ladies believe it or not, studies have shown that you can learn a lot from the friends of the guy you are dating .The following things have strong links to his entourage and can tip you off to his real personality. Here's what his friends can tell you about him. 1. His likelihood of cheating Do you know if his buddies have side chicks...!  If they do, don’t date him! Studies show that one of the biggest predictors of cheating is whether his friends are currently having affairs on their wives and girlfriends. 2. His attitude toward women in general Birds of a feather tend to flock together, especially when it comes to attitudes on women. Misogynistic men ten...

 Cheating can be a sign that something is missing in the relationship. Cheating in a relationship is perhaps never good. Recently a family was ripped apart by her sports presenter husband's affair with their daughter’s best friend. "there are others who feel having multiple secondary relationships while maintaining their primary ones are what keep them ticking. Cheating in a relationship is devastating and destructive but not all cheating are the same. Because people give different reasons or rather excuses why they cheat. Why would a happily married husband with  a beautiful career wife and children decide to cheat.  There are Seven kinds of cheats in a relationship that one needs to be aware of. The Micro-cheater: This can be anything from your partner speaking to someone of the opposite sex on social media to sending them a saucy text. Usually it is just a harmless way of getting a little lift and it won’t lead to anything physical.Even though you have ...

I was born to love you....says a famous song.In fact most songs are about love... It is our greatest need.Babies will not grow well if no one give them love.Adults likewise need love and affection to keep us healthy and mentally stable.It is a fact that love and affection shown by friends and loved ones makes us live longer. Some people don't know how to keep friends,they keep on changing friends now and then due to one reason or the other. Trust and honesty is important in friendship. I was introduced to an African British lady some 20 years ago while we were teenagers till today we are good friends.she is now married but I tell you just a phone call telling them am spending the weekend, I'll be welcomed with open arms and vise Verser .She shows more concern about my welfare and progress than  my own family.That is a real friend. There are ways to find and keep good friends weather they are friends at schools or work,boyfriends or girlfriends or husbands or wife. 1....

Friends are amazing! Friendship is one of the best things in life, and a true friend is priceless. Although friendship is awesome, we all have that annoying friend who makes us wonder why we’re even friends in the first place. Thou some of these friends have bad  and irritating  habits we over look some of them,just because we like them and enjoy their company. Here are some of the annoying types of friends that you probably have. The one that’s always broke This friend never has money, and constantly borrows from you. When you go out, they always make it seem like they forgot their wallet or card, so you have no choice but to lend them cash. Of course, they never pay back or you may have to demand for it several times  before you get your money back.  The one that’s always late. This friend is never on time. If they tell you they’ll be with you in two hours, they actually mean four. They tell you they’re on their way when they are still watching...

Marriage is not a bed of roses.just like life we get what we make out of it. It is a 50/50 game. Any thing less than that will create a situation of endurance.  Marriage is a mathematical problem waiting to be solved.Both sides may be coming from different Nations, culture,traditons and beliefs, with opposite character,habits and personality traits which sometimes start manifesting when the couples start living together. They must work together to strengthen and uphold the relationship. There are simple rules that binds and keeps your relationship rockin' all year long. 1. Do good things together and not just around the holidays.some daddies are seasonal daddies, they appear only on festival times and disappears there afterwards. Everyone feels generous around the holidays, and in December,kitchens get so many volunteers that they have to turn helpers away. These organizations need volunteers desperately at other times of the year,this include daddy,  so you and you...

The word LOVE means different things to different people. When some guys are in relationships it is not for real or true love,but only for sex and fun. Don't blame them, its not that they are selfish, it's their way of life. Play boys.Cute guys with smooth talk. Just to get to the honey pot.some ladies like it anyway, believing constuctive lies. The first few dates with that cute guy you had been crushing on might have been the best, and he may have been as charming as can be But what if the charismatic guy you think you know is with you only casually? Watch out for these signs that show the guy you’ve been dating is in it only for sex.  He’s mostly only available late at night This one is a classic sign of a booty-caller. He will be not available  the whole day, and in the night, when you’re just about to snuggle inside your blanket  he texts you asking you to come over. If this happens once in a blue moon it’s still fine, but if he makes a habit of it, g...

In the past our parents meet one way or the other, fell in love and got married.Arrange marriage is another way some marriages were contracted in those days. An arranged marriage is when  couples decides to wed by people other than themselves. In most cases, this is decided by their parents or other elders in their families, but can also be decided by religious figures, teachers, close friends of the family,business associates or others. It is mostly practised in Southern Asian, African, East and Middle East countries.  Arranged marriages are not just an alliance between two individuals, it is an alliance between families. Unlike forced marriages, partners are only suggested to the single persons in question. They can accept or refuse. Many people in Western cultures disagree with arranged marriages.  It is the social norm in the west to form a deep, emotional bond with someone before marriage is even considered. However, recent studies have shown that although ar...