How To Find Your True Love
Is finding your true love an impossible dream?How can you know you have found the right one?
The following ways will increase the likelihood of finding the right person.Your God ordained helpmate for yourself.
1. First things first.
Relationships are spiritual in nature.The first thing you need to do before you start searching for your right one is to examine yourself.
yes...check yourself.
your character
your likes
........dislikes
........Temperance
........habits....and much more.
In my own opinion there is no such thing as will of God when searching for a life partner.
If you are the type waiting for the will of God. am sorry to disappoint you , you may have to wait for a long time,or the devil might deceive you to marry the wrong person....or at worse you may not have a choice to make when age is no more on your side.
My advice is to pray to God to help you find a comparable partner.(compatibility) is the answer.
A lot of people misinterpret this will of God thing in marriage the wrong way.
Some people who are not born again also are also taking about the will of God...funny.
If you are a believer and you live by the word of God,the Holy Spirit will help you.
Having done all this.I congratulate you...you are on your way in finding your one true love.
2.YOUR CHARACTER COUNTS
Finding the right person for life partner is not a matter of luck nor is it a matter of selfishness.It comes because you have prepared yourself to be the right person for somebody else.
Think about it,if you want the best person isnt it only fair that you need to be the best person for somebody else.
Success in marriage is more than finding the right person,it is being the right person.
Your character can either attract people or repel them from you.Take your time to work on your character,be flexible so as to make changes where necessary.
3.KNOW WHOM YOU ARE LOOKING FOR
Until you specifically know whom you are looking for, you have not made up your mind as any one can be the right one for you.you must create the mental picture of whom you are looking for in your mind and in your spirit. so you won't miss him or her immediately you meet.
Below are some things you must know about whom you are searching for.
These will help you restrict your search
to the necessary place.
4.DON'T BE UNEQUALLY YORKED
Never go searching for your right one amidst unbelievers.If you do that it means you are straying from God' s word
you must first start searching among pe rsons who share the same doctrine and beliefs with you.
How ever I will like to keep my comments and thoughts on this issue,because have come across marriages where ladies get converted after marriage and vice-versa..and they live happily ever after.but this does not happen in all cases...so it better to stay away,if you don't have the strong mind and will don't attempt it.You will have numerous battles to fight.
5.COMPATIBILITY
Part of the knowledge you must know about your right one,is how compatible the person must be to you.
compatibility in core areas must not be neglected in all its prospect it is one of the guiding lamps that show that you your way to finding your right one.
Let us examine compatibility under the following.
Medical compatibility
your blood group and genotype,must match each other.Go for blood test and see medical experts on this issue.Don't deceive yourself,it is very important.
TEMPERAMENT BLENDS
Lean about The temperament, we have sanguine,chimeric,phlegmatic and melancholy...Find out what blind you would cope with.
6.YOUR WEAKNESS AND STRENGTH
Your right one should be one who's point of weakness are your point of strength.
you must not go for someone who is weak where you are also weak.
For example,if you are gentle and timid.your wife must be outspoken and fearless.so if she truly love you and see someone wants to cheat you she will challenge them and fight for you.
ACADEMIC COMPATIBILITY
This does not really matter,but be willing to accept who ever God gives you no matter the qualification.There may be room for improvement later.
AGE COMPATIBILITY
AGE must not be a criterion for choosing,Although the importance of age cannot be over emphasized.,but it shouldn't be a barrier.God could give you someone your age or a bit older, Or He could challenge your humility by giving you someone much younger.you reject him or her you reject your destiny.
Finally make sure your dating is pure
Your courtship need not last for 10 years.A minimum of 3 years is enough to understand each other.Why court for 10 years then start quarrel and fighting after 2 years of marriage.It means both of you did not work on your attitude....
Our parents new nothing about courtship but lived a happy marriage life devoid of separation and divorce.
Today many are so fearful and even cynical about the prospect of finding their one true love.They believe that finding a life long match is an impossible dream. They think though it may happen to some people it won't happen to them.Even young people who believe in God sometimes fear they will have a relationship that will Breakup instead of lasting till death do us part. Some are so fearful at the prospects and possibilities of disappointment, they never open up enough emotionally or intellectually to allow potential mates and suitors to get close enough for genuine love to develop.
The following ways will increase the likelihood of finding the right person.Your God ordained helpmate for yourself.
1. First things first.
Relationships are spiritual in nature.The first thing you need to do before you start searching for your right one is to examine yourself.
yes...check yourself.
your character
your likes
........dislikes
........Temperance
........habits....and much more.
In my own opinion there is no such thing as will of God when searching for a life partner.
If you are the type waiting for the will of God. am sorry to disappoint you , you may have to wait for a long time,or the devil might deceive you to marry the wrong person....or at worse you may not have a choice to make when age is no more on your side.
My advice is to pray to God to help you find a comparable partner.(compatibility) is the answer.
A lot of people misinterpret this will of God thing in marriage the wrong way.
Some people who are not born again also are also taking about the will of God...funny.
If you are a believer and you live by the word of God,the Holy Spirit will help you.
Having done all this.I congratulate you...you are on your way in finding your one true love.
2.YOUR CHARACTER COUNTS
Finding the right person for life partner is not a matter of luck nor is it a matter of selfishness.It comes because you have prepared yourself to be the right person for somebody else.
Think about it,if you want the best person isnt it only fair that you need to be the best person for somebody else.
Success in marriage is more than finding the right person,it is being the right person.
Your character can either attract people or repel them from you.Take your time to work on your character,be flexible so as to make changes where necessary.
3.KNOW WHOM YOU ARE LOOKING FOR
Until you specifically know whom you are looking for, you have not made up your mind as any one can be the right one for you.you must create the mental picture of whom you are looking for in your mind and in your spirit. so you won't miss him or her immediately you meet.
Below are some things you must know about whom you are searching for.
These will help you restrict your search
to the necessary place.
4.DON'T BE UNEQUALLY YORKED
Never go searching for your right one amidst unbelievers.If you do that it means you are straying from God' s word
you must first start searching among pe rsons who share the same doctrine and beliefs with you.
How ever I will like to keep my comments and thoughts on this issue,because have come across marriages where ladies get converted after marriage and vice-versa..and they live happily ever after.but this does not happen in all cases...so it better to stay away,if you don't have the strong mind and will don't attempt it.You will have numerous battles to fight.
5.COMPATIBILITY
Part of the knowledge you must know about your right one,is how compatible the person must be to you.
compatibility in core areas must not be neglected in all its prospect it is one of the guiding lamps that show that you your way to finding your right one.
Let us examine compatibility under the following.
Medical compatibility
your blood group and genotype,must match each other.Go for blood test and see medical experts on this issue.Don't deceive yourself,it is very important.
TEMPERAMENT BLENDS
Lean about The temperament, we have sanguine,chimeric,phlegmatic and melancholy...Find out what blind you would cope with.
6.YOUR WEAKNESS AND STRENGTH
Your right one should be one who's point of weakness are your point of strength.
you must not go for someone who is weak where you are also weak.
For example,if you are gentle and timid.your wife must be outspoken and fearless.so if she truly love you and see someone wants to cheat you she will challenge them and fight for you.
ACADEMIC COMPATIBILITY
This does not really matter,but be willing to accept who ever God gives you no matter the qualification.There may be room for improvement later.
AGE COMPATIBILITY
AGE must not be a criterion for choosing,Although the importance of age cannot be over emphasized.,but it shouldn't be a barrier.God could give you someone your age or a bit older, Or He could challenge your humility by giving you someone much younger.you reject him or her you reject your destiny.
Finally make sure your dating is pure
Your courtship need not last for 10 years.A minimum of 3 years is enough to understand each other.Why court for 10 years then start quarrel and fighting after 2 years of marriage.It means both of you did not work on your attitude....
Our parents new nothing about courtship but lived a happy marriage life devoid of separation and divorce.
