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Living In A Loveless Relationship 2

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 Living in an unhappy marriage is a very personal decision And as long as the marriage isn't abusive and partners are reasonably respectful of one another, it can actually work for some couples . Conflict in a relationship can lead to damaging responses in the body such as inflammation, changes in appetite and increased release of stress hormones, all of which can affect numerous aspects of health ranging from heart function to the immune system.   Research found out that many young Unhappy marri ed  couples who stayed together were happy five years later. Those who divorced were not happier than those  who stayed together. 70% of those who did not wait but remarried shortly after their divorce are happy ever after.  Couples that don't talk or communicate in any form will eventually fall apart.communication is crucial in a relationship. It is possible to be happy in a loveless marriage . After all, marriage is about family and not just your partner. A perso...

Living In A Loveless Relationship Part 1

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 What is love.  Love is an intense feeling or affection for another person. i t i s an emotion that keeps people bonded and committed to one another. A loveless marriage is a relationship in which one or both partners do not feel in love .  Instead of being romantic lovers, they often feel more like roommates or siblings. Being in a loveless marriage often breeds isolation, resentment, and hopelessness. I pity such people because LOVE IS A KILLER..YES .. LOVE have consumed many souls. Love have ended the lives of many who lived in abusive relationship and kept quiet believing things will get better. Love have ended the Life of many who were killed by their lovers for cheating on them.. In some of my earlier publications l had written notes on why I believe love is a killer if not properly handled.  Living in a loveless relationship is as bad as drinking alcohol, smoking and taking hard drugs all at the same time...it is very very unhealthy such person will not h...

Ghanaian Lawyer Advocate For Premarital Sex

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Once upon a time there was this young man who was desperately in love with a lady. He decided he will marry this lady,fortunately for him after much pressure  they started dating. But unfortunately for the lady her man had erection problems, he could not have sex with a woman, he did not know that he had a serious problem. Since as Christians no sex before marriage. Eventually after the wedding night and several months past this man was unable to perform one of his most important duties as husband. There was an uproar between the couples the lady believed he knew all along about this problem but was wicked and keep quite about it.... Many of such cases is prevalent in our society today. This is the reason why some people have been suggesting  sex before marriage.  A Ghanaian lawyer has openly been advocating for sex before marriage. According to a private legal practitioner, Margaret Acheampong...

Where Is the Extended Family?

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One morning, my son walked up to me and said "Daddy I have a very important request; Can you please build a very big house, where my cousins, uncles, aunties, nephews, nieces and other close family members will come and live with us? I want all of us to be living together. Daddy, this is my desire... If you can do this for me, I will be the happiest person in the world" This is rather an impossible task my son is requesting. while growing up,it was a delight living with extended families..we all looked forward to holidays when will see each again. Nothing gave us more joy than seeing other family members around. Some relatives had little or nothing, but their strength and wealth was in relationships and being together. The joy of holidays and celebrations still vibrate in my heart. We usually lose sleep to happiness during such seasons because,relatives would be coming home. It was such a delight to see siblings, cousins, nieces, nephews, uncles, aunties, grannies, ...

The rich man and the poor man

In olden times, when the Lord himself still used to walk about on this earth amongst men, it once happened that he was tired and overtaken by the darkness before he could reach an inn.  Now there stood on the road before him two houses facing each other, the one large and beautiful, the other small and poor.  The large one belonged to a rich man, and the small one to a poor man. Then the Lord thought, I shall be no burden to the rich man. I will stay the night with him.  Then the rich man heard someone knocking at his door, he opened the window and asked the stranger what he wanted.  The Lord answered, I only ask for a night's lodging. Then the rich man looked at the traveler from head to foot, and as the Lord was wearing common clothes, and did not look like one who had much money in his pocket, he shook his head, and said, no, I cannot take you in, my rooms are full of herbs and seeds.  And if I were to lodge everyone who knocked at my door, ...

16 Powerful Advice for young people

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Life is complicated. It is not easy, smooth, or even consistently comprehensible. However, as frustrating as it may be, it is wonderful. These pieces of life advice is for the youths who think that life is all glitter and golden. 1. Life is hard. Nothing can be achieved so easily. 2. No matter how many friends you have, only your parents are going to help you. if you are lucky to have them around you in your youth as some of us had lost our parents at our tender age. 3. You will be respected only when you have some talents with which you can earn money. So develop it. 4. Social media = wasting time = spoiling life. 5. Life isn't glamorous as shown in movies. It's actually so hard to live in this competitive world. 6. Don't even think to live like celebs. Because believe me, their life is also same as ours. Only the way media showing it is different. 7. Sex is not fun. Sex is not just about pleasure. Depends on how you take it. 8. Your spouse friend...

Is Honesty Really the best policy ?

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Since our childhood we are taught about, “Honesty is the best policy”. Does it really work in real life? Especially in our society today. Every body is fighting for survival. Every man for himself and God for us all. Some people definitely will not get their daily bread if they don't lie. How about business people,do they "always tell the truth about their products and services. Peck milk says in its advert ......it contains 28 vitamins and minerals how true is that. In our day to day life, we are reluctant, to tell the truth, to avoid conflicts,  punishment and embarrassment. According to research conducted by the University Of Chicago Booth School Of Business, people can be more honest than they actually think of. Can their be total honesty in a relationship....? People avoid being honest thinking about the cost they have to pay after they tell the truth. Can we share our secrets or give critical feedback to others? Will we be able to face each other in fut...