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Finding Friends and Keeping Friends

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I was born to love you....says a famous song.In fact most songs are about love... It is our greatest need.Babies will not grow well if no one give them love.Adults likewise need love and affection to keep us healthy and mentally stable.It is a fact that love and affection shown by friends and loved ones makes us live longer. Some people don't know how to keep friends,they keep on changing friends now and then due to one reason or the other. Trust and honesty is important in friendship. I was introduced to an African British lady some 20 years ago while we were teenagers till today we are good friends.she is now married but I tell you just a phone call telling them am spending the weekend, I'll be welcomed with open arms and vise Verser .She shows more concern about my welfare and progress than  my own family.That is a real friend. There are ways to find and keep good friends weather they are friends at schools or work,boyfriends or girlfriends or husbands or wife. 1....

Never Ask a Married Woman these questions

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These questions annoy a married woman. Married women  have been victims of such crap talk quite often. Such questions comes from friends and close associates. Married life witness a lot of curious minds who just wants to intrude in other people's business and relationships. Ridiculous questions such as how are  you coping with your inlaws,  why did your husband allow you wear jeans,how long will your mother in-law stay blah, blah, blah...how does that concern them. If you don't want to piss off a married female don't ask questions such as how old are you, make negative comments about her weight.  *Who earns more? I wonder what makes people ask such questions? Such questions should be avoided,especially if you are not an aid in helping them with their budget.  *Should I get married? This one's hilarious. Please don't try to take the step based on someone else's experiences. It's like between the devil and the deep sea. * So when a...

Marriage is a Mathematical problem waiting to be solved

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Marriage is not a bed of roses.just like life we get what we make out of it. It is a 50/50 game. Any thing less than that will create a situation of endurance.  Marriage is a mathematical problem waiting to be solved.Both sides may be coming from different Nations, culture,traditons and beliefs, with opposite character,habits and personality traits which sometimes start manifesting when the couples start living together. They must work together to strengthen and uphold the relationship. There are simple rules that binds and keeps your relationship rockin' all year long. 1. Do good things together and not just around the holidays.some daddies are seasonal daddies, they appear only on festival times and disappears there afterwards. Everyone feels generous around the holidays, and in December,kitchens get so many volunteers that they have to turn helpers away. These organizations need volunteers desperately at other times of the year,this include daddy,  so you and you...

Arab Husband Divorces wife just a week into Honeymoon

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In a bizarre incident, a man filed for divorce just a week into his honeymoon after complaining that his wife refused to have sex with him and spent money 'extravagantly'. He said his wife refused to be intimate not even allowing him to touch her. The couple, Muslims from an Arab country, had flown to Europe to celebrate their Dubai marriage. But things turned sour soon for the newlyweds. The couple appealed to a sharia court in Dubai, where the man said his new wife did not allow him to touch her or have sex with her during the honeymoon. Meanwhile, the woman accused her husband of being 'tight-fisted and stingy in terms of spending money on her,and buying the things she wanted  a source close to the case told Gulf News. According to reports, the couple separated from one another as soon as their plane landed in Dubai, the husband wasting no time in heading to court,he decided to divorce her six days into the honeymoon. They had reportedly been engaged f...

Signs that show he's in it just for sex

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The word LOVE means different things to different people. When some guys are in relationships it is not for real or true love,but only for sex and fun. Don't blame them, its not that they are selfish, it's their way of life. Play boys.Cute guys with smooth talk. Just to get to the honey pot.some ladies like it anyway, believing constuctive lies. The first few dates with that cute guy you had been crushing on might have been the best, and he may have been as charming as can be But what if the charismatic guy you think you know is with you only casually? Watch out for these signs that show the guy you’ve been dating is in it only for sex.  He’s mostly only available late at night This one is a classic sign of a booty-caller. He will be not available  the whole day, and in the night, when you’re just about to snuggle inside your blanket  he texts you asking you to come over. If this happens once in a blue moon it’s still fine, but if he makes a habit of it, g...