Never Ask a Married Woman these questions
These questions annoy a married woman.
Married women have been victims of such crap talk quite often. Such questions comes from friends and close associates.
Married life witness a lot of curious minds who just wants to intrude in other people's business and relationships.
Ridiculous questions such as how are you coping with your inlaws, why did your husband allow you wear jeans,how long will your mother in-law stay blah, blah, blah...how does that concern them.
If you don't want to piss off a married female don't ask questions such as how old are you, make negative comments
about her weight.
*Who earns more?
I wonder what makes people ask such questions?
Such questions should be avoided,especially if you are not an aid in helping them with their budget.
*Should I get married?
This one's hilarious. Please don't try to take the step based on someone else's experiences.
It's like between the devil and the deep sea.
* So when are we going to hear the good news?
Getting married is like owning a business and getting pregnant is like launching your product. So, quite a typical question followed immediately after the first. Women get frustrated by this question, mainly because either they were continuing their studies or were at a critical point in their careers.it may also be conditions is not yet favourable to have children.
People, having kids is a personal choice. Leaving it to the producers is good.
* Your husband has a good job. Why do you need to work?
A female might at times choose to earn to make both ends meet, but her job has no connection with her husband's job profile. Moreover, please do not try to sneak in.
* Are you able to help out your kids with their studies?
This is an indirect way to know how qualified or educated she is. Sounds all the more ridiculous when the kid being referred to is doing well at school.
Just a piece of advice.
Even if the female is not highly qualified,or educated she would sort out some way to help her child in his or her studies. So, don't worry.
*Who is more dominating?
Isn't it bizarre? Determining the authoritative power in someone else's household is indeed none of your business, peeps!
*You have a couple of male friends. Is your hubby okay with it?
Is it polite to ask such questions, having male friends or not depicts the female as a permission seeker for everything she wants to do, or see the man as weak for allowing his wife have male friends.
*Adding fuel to the fire within an empowered woman.
Has getting married cut off certain things?
*Are you able to do things you used to before?
Marriage is a milestone, not a dead end. Of course, with time things change women lives and they might not be able to do certain things but blaming it on marriage is not done.
*Are you not going to change your surname?
This one's a perfect recipe to hit a female ego. When married, they often hold on to their fathers name especially if they come from rich and influencial family. Sade Bankole..... becomes Sade Bankole Adeyemi. There's a lot in a name,it means much more to women.
Absolutely its her choice to stick to her father's name.
*Is the spark alive?Do you still love him. ?
This question is unnecessary and offensive especially if it comes from a male colleague rather than a female friend.
When your marriage crosses the 5 to 10-year mark, people are really concerned if the spark is still alive. Don't worry, fellas, as a couple, both of them figure out ways to cherish their companionship. Otherwise, don't breach your line of control.
Love takes no offence.
"After all he did to you.. You're still talking about 'forgiveness," Let them settle,give her space... Don't be a negative influence.
*Period.
Most Married women hate being asked these kind of questions to some it is normal to ask ,but honestly it's annoying to some, So mark her words and make sure not to encroach the privacy of any married woman you come across apart from her closest of friends were such gossips is allowed.
