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Things to remember when you are sad.

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Sadness is an emotional pain associated with a feeling of grief, unhappiness, breakenhearted and sorrow. Sadness is a natural human emotion. Like other emotions, sad feelings come and go. Some sad feelings last only a moment, some last longer. When sad feelings ease away, a happier mood can take their place Causes of sadness include : Not being loved. There are  lots of unloved and lonely people out there who are sad because love is missing in their lives. Too much money. Money is not happiness Poor people can also be very happy. while rich people can also be sad and depressed. Some poor people are sad because they are not contented. They feel intimidated by what the rich display, so they want to  have it to impress others, A needless proof that they too can afford it. some times they don't really need those things. Too much choice. Because of money at their disposal rich people became sad,They have a great collection  of options to choose from, when t...

5 Types of men you should never fall in love with

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 Ladies there some men you should try as much as possible to avoid if you don't want to experience heart break and disappointments. There are a lot of guys out there with commitment issues. And if you're dating one of them, it's no good for you. Your relationship is going nowhere The sooner you realize this, the sooner you'll experience  real happiness and love. Below is a list of guys that no one (of any age) shouldn’t spend a second with once you figure them out. Don’t try to change them. Don't try to help them overcome their commitment phobia. Instead, just run! Run as fast as you can, After all, the more time you spend with the wrong person, the more time it will take you to meet the right person.but to my personal experience some ladies don't like nice guys, they prefer playboys and rough guys that will manhandle and disappoint them,they will start crying out loud that are bad, irresponsible and not ready for commitment. These are the five types...

Things a woman can learn about a man from his friends

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 An adage says, “Show me your friends, and I’ll show you who you are.” Birds of the same feather folk together.  People who have friends who are incarcerated are more likely to get arrested themselves. Simply put, you are who you hang out with — and there’s nothing wrong with judging someone by their entourage. Ladies believe it or not, studies have shown that you can learn a lot from the friends of the guy you are dating .The following things have strong links to his entourage and can tip you off to his real personality. Here's what his friends can tell you about him. 1. His likelihood of cheating Do you know if his buddies have side chicks...!  If they do, don’t date him! Studies show that one of the biggest predictors of cheating is whether his friends are currently having affairs on their wives and girlfriends. 2. His attitude toward women in general Birds of a feather tend to flock together, especially when it comes to attitudes on women. Misogynistic men ten...

Types of Annoying friends we have.

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Friends are amazing! Friendship is one of the best things in life, and a true friend is priceless. Although friendship is awesome, we all have that annoying friend who makes us wonder why we’re even friends in the first place. Thou some of these friends have bad  and irritating  habits we over look some of them,just because we like them and enjoy their company. Here are some of the annoying types of friends that you probably have. The one that’s always broke This friend never has money, and constantly borrows from you. When you go out, they always make it seem like they forgot their wallet or card, so you have no choice but to lend them cash. Of course, they never pay back or you may have to demand for it several times  before you get your money back.  The one that’s always late. This friend is never on time. If they tell you they’ll be with you in two hours, they actually mean four. They tell you they’re on their way when they are still watching...

GIFTS OF KINDNESS

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 Once upon a time in a small,  quiet town, there lived a lonely girl named Elara. She often felt invisible, surrounded by crowds  but never truly seen. Despite her cheerful disposition, a shadow of solitude lingered in her heart. Elara spent her days painting vivid portraits of nature's beauty and her nights dreaming of a world filled with kindness and connection. One crisp sunny day, while walking through the town Elara noticed an elderly man sitting on a bench, looking forlorn. His name was Mr. Thompson, a painter who had lost his spirit after his wife passed away. Seeing his sadness stirred something deep within Elara; she couldn't ignore the ache of loneliness mirrored in his eyes. Compelled by a sudden urge to brighten his day, Elara approched him. “Hello! Would you like to share storie about art?” she asked with a warm smile. Mr. Thompson looked surprised but nodded slowly, As they talked about their favorite paintings she shared laugher within her heart. From that ...

10 Interesting facts about farting.

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These are incredible and interesting facts about farting. I guess you might have already started getting some rosey smell in the air. Let see all of the facts: 1. We perceive only 1% of the gases expelled via fart, giving that characteristics smell. Usally sulfurous gases like dimethyl sulfide and methanethiol . 2.On an average a person passes a liter of gas each day.That is a huge amount. 3.An average healthy person passes gas 14 times a day.If you think it doesn't happen then I must inform you that they are even released when you are asleep. 4.Even the speed of fart have been calculated and that is about 7 miles per hour.Thank God that they are gases not any solid objects, else they would penetrate through the chairs. 5.And here comes the sour truth,the gases are actually flammable.Don't try it at home. 6.Holding your fart doesn't causes any harm to the body but it may cause some pains and cramps. 7.Termites are the animals which produce fart mo...

Touching staring at a woman's breasts can make men live longer.

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A study done by a German scientist, Dr Karen staring at women’s breasts is healthy and also elongates the life span of men. The study, which was carried out over a period of five years, involved 500 men, half of whom were instructed to stare at women’s breasts in a lustful manner for no less than 10 minutes every day. The other half were instructed to abstain from doing such.t concluded that men who stared at breasts, more often, showed lower rates of heart problems, slower resting heart rate and lower blood pressure, all of which enable a healthy living and long life. The study said men should stare at breasts for 10 minutes a day to improve the wellness of their hearts and live longer. “Just 10 minutes of staring at the charms of a well-endowed female every day is roughly equivalent to a 30-minute aerobics work-out,” the study revealed. When the two groups of men were tested, men that stared at breasts daily had lower blood pressure, slower resting pulse rates, as well as fewer insta...

Living In A Loveless Relationship 2

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 Living in an unhappy marriage is a very personal decision And as long as the marriage isn't abusive and partners are reasonably respectful of one another, it can actually work for some couples . Conflict in a relationship can lead to damaging responses in the body such as inflammation, changes in appetite and increased release of stress hormones, all of which can affect numerous aspects of health ranging from heart function to the immune system.   Research found out that many young Unhappy marri ed  couples who stayed together were happy five years later. Those who divorced were not happier than those  who stayed together. 70% of those who did not wait but remarried shortly after their divorce are happy ever after.  Couples that don't talk or communicate in any form will eventually fall apart.communication is crucial in a relationship. It is possible to be happy in a loveless marriage . After all, marriage is about family and not just your partner. A perso...

Living In A Loveless Relationship Part 1

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 What is love.  Love is an intense feeling or affection for another person. i t i s an emotion that keeps people bonded and committed to one another. A loveless marriage is a relationship in which one or both partners do not feel in love .  Instead of being romantic lovers, they often feel more like roommates or siblings. Being in a loveless marriage often breeds isolation, resentment, and hopelessness. I pity such people because LOVE IS A KILLER..YES .. LOVE have consumed many souls. Love have ended the lives of many who lived in abusive relationship and kept quiet believing things will get better. Love have ended the Life of many who were killed by their lovers for cheating on them.. In some of my earlier publications l had written notes on why I believe love is a killer if not properly handled.  Living in a loveless relationship is as bad as drinking alcohol, smoking and taking hard drugs all at the same time...it is very very unhealthy such person will not h...

Ghanaian Lawyer Advocate For Premarital Sex

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Once upon a time there was this young man who was desperately in love with a lady. He decided he will marry this lady,fortunately for him after much pressure  they started dating. But unfortunately for the lady her man had erection problems, he could not have sex with a woman, he did not know that he had a serious problem. Since as Christians no sex before marriage. Eventually after the wedding night and several months past this man was unable to perform one of his most important duties as husband. There was an uproar between the couples the lady believed he knew all along about this problem but was wicked and keep quite about it.... Many of such cases is prevalent in our society today. This is the reason why some people have been suggesting  sex before marriage.  A Ghanaian lawyer has openly been advocating for sex before marriage. According to a private legal practitioner, Margaret Acheampong...

Where Is the Extended Family?

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One morning, my son walked up to me and said "Daddy I have a very important request; Can you please build a very big house, where my cousins, uncles, aunties, nephews, nieces and other close family members will come and live with us? I want all of us to be living together. Daddy, this is my desire... If you can do this for me, I will be the happiest person in the world" This is rather an impossible task my son is requesting. while growing up,it was a delight living with extended families..we all looked forward to holidays when will see each again. Nothing gave us more joy than seeing other family members around. Some relatives had little or nothing, but their strength and wealth was in relationships and being together. The joy of holidays and celebrations still vibrate in my heart. We usually lose sleep to happiness during such seasons because,relatives would be coming home. It was such a delight to see siblings, cousins, nieces, nephews, uncles, aunties, grannies, ...

The rich man and the poor man

In olden times, when the Lord himself still used to walk about on this earth amongst men, it once happened that he was tired and overtaken by the darkness before he could reach an inn.  Now there stood on the road before him two houses facing each other, the one large and beautiful, the other small and poor.  The large one belonged to a rich man, and the small one to a poor man. Then the Lord thought, I shall be no burden to the rich man. I will stay the night with him.  Then the rich man heard someone knocking at his door, he opened the window and asked the stranger what he wanted.  The Lord answered, I only ask for a night's lodging. Then the rich man looked at the traveler from head to foot, and as the Lord was wearing common clothes, and did not look like one who had much money in his pocket, he shook his head, and said, no, I cannot take you in, my rooms are full of herbs and seeds.  And if I were to lodge everyone who knocked at my door, ...