RESTORING LOST LOVE

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SIX STEPS IN RESTORING LOST LOVE.


In case you are in marriage relationship and right now it is at the verge of collapsing just because love seems to have disappeared,here is the divine wisdom you need to apply so that the flames of love is rekindled even greater than before.

1.Search for a nice,quite and safe environment where you and your partner can communicate.

This is a time for listening only.No judgement,no evaluation,no pointing of accusing fingers....just listening and assimilating each other's  opinion.


2. Stop criticism immediately.!

You that see nothing good in your  spouse or never does anything well as far as you are concerned....it is time you stop criticising each other...Start appreciating  your spouse. Learn to celebrate him or her always and correct each other's mistakes lovingly.


3.Create  sessions for healing, acceptance and reconciliation.

This is the time to pour out your mind and thoughts to your spouse.
Men it is not the time to hurt, attack or blame her.
For example ....your wife says...why is it that you do not appreciate what ever I do?.yesterday you snubbed me when I was trying to talk to you...
your response should be...O my darling am sorry...I don't know what came over me....it will not happen again.
 Do not say .....why should I appreciate you ...you are always nagging and insulting me.

4.Perform random acts of Kindness for your patner.

Among other things this must include buying of gifts to surprise her,joining her in the kitchen and helping with some laundry...remember she is your wife not your slave.Give her
 money for up keep always and especially at the times you sense she needs it most.

5.Return to successful dating.

Find time to take your spouse out.Take her to interesting places and also on picnics...talk and play as if you just meet for the first time.

6.Express your love and Feelings for your partner.

Say sweet things..with hugs and kisses...always show affection,love and concerns for each other's welfare

With these steps and with the help of prayers your relationship will be restored...and the flames of love will  burn once again.
Then you will be able to teach and council others who going through similar challenges..

Enjoy happy married life to the fullest

. Life is what we make out of it.

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