Three Reasons Why Divorce Is Good for kids
Not every child of divorce ends up an addict, or homeless, or a problem child with behavioral issues. Sometimes, remaining in a broken relationship is more likely to cause these types of psychological issues. When the day came that my dad asked my mom for divorce, I was 10-years-old. When he informed me of the news, I was upset, but at the same time not surprised, and maybe even mildly relieved. Even at such a young age, I knew my parents’ marriage wasn’t working, and I knew my dad was miserable. Looking back now, I can say with certainty that my dad’s decision to leave my mom not only saved himself but my sister and I as well. Had he stayed with my mom, I don’t know how I would’ve turned out. I am not the typical “child of divorce,” which every divorce article ends up traumatized, unsuccessful, burdened with trust issues, etc. How do you know it wouldn’t be the same for your own children? While what I’m about to go into is based on my personal ( close family) experience, t...