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As good as it might feel, don't try and get even. Whether your partner makes out with someone else or has a months-long affair, being cheated on hurts. But that doesn’t mean the relationship isn’t worth repairing, a choice that is yours alone to make — there will always be those friends and family who insist that you leave, but only you can decide what’s right for you (got that, Mom?). "Monogamy is not easy, and it’s more difficult for some people than others," and while infidelity is painful, "[a relationship] does usually get better when people are committed and they’re working hard to establish a trust and are truly remorseful."  many couples  have even developed stronger connections post-cheating (although, yes, it’s generally easier to do that before you happen to see a text that reads "I miss your body baby xo" pop up on their phone). However, all this comes with a giant "but." As you move forward together, some behaviors that...

Girls from rich families like putting on skimpy  short and tight clothes than girls from middle class or poor family. Why is this so.... Everyone is saying rich girls are open minded thats why they are wearing less clothes, since when being open minded becomes equal to less clothes. I am more open minded, so should I go around wearing only my underwear? I believe being open minded has nothing to do with clothes, what it has to do with is mentality. See,rich girls know they are the top 1% of our society, so they constantly need other people to remind this, that they are superior and needs attention (call this a princess feeling) ,what rich girls can do to get attention? Yes, wear less clothes. See wearing less clothes in Nigerian cities such as Abuja, Lagos, port harcourt  is the best way to get some eyeball gaze points,but its the usual thing in the western world no man will gaze at you lustfully.  This is the same reason why some Phd people act so cocky, they con...

Many a time, abuse happens in front of children and women feel humiliated. Before they realise it, they are trapped in the relationship.  Pop singer Rihanna became the poster girl for domestic violence in 2009 when a picture of her battered face was leaked online. But when she decided to get back together with Chris Brown — her abuser — many of us couldn’t wrap our heads around it. Women have died in such situations especially in Africa. Years later, this one question remains a mystery: Why do so many women, especially those who are financially independent, choose to stay in abusive relationships? Here's what psychiatrists have to say. “Many women have seen some form of abuse in their family. So they grow up thinking, it is part and parcel of life and tolerate it,” says Dr Rajiv Mehta, psychiatrist at Sir Ganga Ram Hospital. “Then there is the false sense of hope. Women believe their partner loves them and that the abuse happened in the heat of the moment or under...

Of course it is a terrible feeling when your relationship has ended. You feel hurt, angry and very sad. But, it doesn’t mean that you can’t be happy after a break up. Always look on the bright side! Here are the 11 reasons why you should be happy after a break up.  You have more time for yourself. For taking baths, doing masks, nail polish, watching TV series and having quality time with your friends. Those things you couldn’t do often, because your relationship required a lot of time.  You decide what you want to eat and don’t have to discuss this. Want to eat sushi tonight? Then you go eat sushi tonight. Invite your addicted sushi girlfriends! Finally you can watch chick flicks. He did not like being forced to watch Mean Girls, so you did him a favor and just watched another movie.  You have the time for your friends. You may have said no to your friends too often, because you already had a date planned with you boy … You can still wear your beautiful ...

Should a Christian display romance, walking and holding hands in public. What does the Bible say about romance. Although there are no references to the word romance in the Bible, there are 281 mentions of love. Since the dictionary definition for romance is "ardent emotional attachment or involvement between people; a love affair," these two terms can sometimes be used interchangeably. But the true meaning of love, as defined in the Bible, has been corrupted in the common usage of our English language and society. Most often, love is confused with infatuation - that elated, "high" feeling we get when we "fall in love." This kind of "love" is something that lasts typically a short time and, unless replaced by true love, results in broken relationships. The Bible covers two types of love: agape and phileo. Agape love is represented by God's love for us. It is a non-partial, sacrificial love best demonstrated by the gift in John 3:16...