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The power of this article is in the collaborative effort, so feel free to add your own thoughts!  In my experience watching my parents, if we make the conscious decision to daily place our spouse’s desires and needs above our own, and that’s reciprocated, the marriage will succeed. Utter and complete selflessness. Isn’t this true in all healthy relationships? Such principles are great, but having a list of ideas to help us along never hurts… — Began by “Wendy” I’m a woman, divorced after 7 years of marriage. I read your post and appreciate the heart behind the advice. The fact that you you recognize the part you played in the scheme of things is a feat in itself. Being able to face the past with openness and humility is admirable and not something many can, or even want, to accomplish. Given my experience, there are some key concepts I learned in my journey as well. We women have equal responsibility in making a marriage work. For all the points mentioned for husbands,...

Wonders shall never end.  This chicken has two horns on its head. However, going through the page of the person who posted it on social media, there are speculations that the strange chicken should either be in Asia or in India. WOW!

At 60 many would have lost hope that she will die unmarried but in a twist of fate she met her dream man and they are now married.  Nigerian lady marries for the first time at 60 For 30 years Sarah waited for love. She was never married nor have any child. She is starting her own family at 60. Sarah met her husband in 2014 and after two years of courtship he popped the question in 2016 and here in 2017 they are married. Does she look 60 at all? Talk of good genes. Nigerian lady Sarah who marries at 60 and her husband According to an Instagram user bridesnmoreikeja who prepared her for her wedding: “60 years old and a first time brideas in she’s never been married!…..Dang!!..she looks good at 60!!….#goodgenes..#healthyliving…I remember the first time we met and she told me her age…I was like #hollymolly!!! #abasi mbok…..#unbelieveable……she went on to tell me how shes been waiting for ‘mr right’ since when she was in her 30’s and he never came. And so two years ...

  A Nigerian Air Force personnel, Igbobi Uzezi, who accused one of her superiors, Flight Lieutenant B.S Vibelko, of drugging and raping her in 2011, has sued him along with the Air Force, Chief of Air Staff, and Attorney-General of the Federation, for her unlawful dismissal. . The suit, number FHC/L/CS/10/17, was filed at the Federal High Court, Lagos Division on January 5, 2017, by the Malachy Ugwummadu Chambers on behalf of the Committee for the Defence of Human Rights, which is handling the case. . The court processes state that the “violent rape and sexual assault” of Uzezi was a “flagrant violation of her fundamental rights to life, dignity of human person and personal liberty.” . Uzezi accused Vibelko of assaulting her on May 17, 2011, with claims that she contracted a sexually transmitted disease in the process. She said in her suit, “I was arrested and detained at the guardroom within the Air Force Base, V.I, Lagos in an inclement and dehumanising condition with...

MAKING MARRIAGE MUTUAL Pervasive ideologies distort our view of female sexuality. God’s Word shows us a better way Women receive conflicting messages about sex. Journalists, bloggers, talk show hosts, and even religious leaders all have their own idea of what married sex is supposed to be. One common ideology encourages us to focus primarily on pursuing our own sexual satisfaction; this mindset is spelled out in several recent marriage books, including Daniel Bergner’s popularWhat Do Women Want?, which describes the female sex drive as “omnivorous” and offers up the possibility of women pursuing sexual fulfillment via threesomes, same-sex encounters, and hooking up with strangers. In direct contrast, another equally pervasive message about women and sex can lead us to believe that what we want is less important (if not irrelevant) because a wife’s responsibility is to satisfy her husband’s sexual desires. The former message emphasizes selfishness; the latter a potentially ...