Things Not to Do When Your Partner Cheats
As good as it might feel, don't try and get even. Whether your partner makes out with someone else or has a months-long affair, being cheated on hurts. But that doesn’t mean the relationship isn’t worth repairing, a choice that is yours alone to make — there will always be those friends and family who insist that you leave, but only you can decide what’s right for you (got that, Mom?). "Monogamy is not easy, and it’s more difficult for some people than others," and while infidelity is painful, "[a relationship] does usually get better when people are committed and they’re working hard to establish a trust and are truly remorseful." many couples have even developed stronger connections post-cheating (although, yes, it’s generally easier to do that before you happen to see a text that reads "I miss your body baby xo" pop up on their phone). However, all this comes with a giant "but." As you move forward together, some behaviors that...