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16 Powerful Advice for young people

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Life is complicated. It is not easy, smooth, or even consistently comprehensible. However, as frustrating as it may be, it is wonderful. These pieces of life advice is for the youths who think that life is all glitter and golden. 1. Life is hard. Nothing can be achieved so easily. 2. No matter how many friends you have, only your parents are going to help you. if you are lucky to have them around you in your youth as some of us had lost our parents at our tender age. 3. You will be respected only when you have some talents with which you can earn money. So develop it. 4. Social media = wasting time = spoiling life. 5. Life isn't glamorous as shown in movies. It's actually so hard to live in this competitive world. 6. Don't even think to live like celebs. Because believe me, their life is also same as ours. Only the way media showing it is different. 7. Sex is not fun. Sex is not just about pleasure. Depends on how you take it. 8. Your spouse friend...

Is Honesty Really the best policy ?

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Since our childhood we are taught about, “Honesty is the best policy”. Does it really work in real life? Especially in our society today. Every body is fighting for survival. Every man for himself and God for us all. Some people definitely will not get their daily bread if they don't lie. How about business people,do they "always tell the truth about their products and services. Peck milk says in its advert ......it contains 28 vitamins and minerals how true is that. In our day to day life, we are reluctant, to tell the truth, to avoid conflicts,  punishment and embarrassment. According to research conducted by the University Of Chicago Booth School Of Business, people can be more honest than they actually think of. Can their be total honesty in a relationship....? People avoid being honest thinking about the cost they have to pay after they tell the truth. Can we share our secrets or give critical feedback to others? Will we be able to face each other in fut...

Everyday Things you never knew had a purpose.

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These are things we use everyday which has features and functions we don't understand or ignorant of their uses. 1. Tiny hole in airplane window.  The tiny holes are for two reasons. One is to compensate air pressure as when the airplane climbs to high altitude there is huge pressure difference between the inside & the outside of the plane. The second reason is that it prevents the windows from fogging up. 2. Car Headrest.  One other use which majority of us are not aware of. If your car gets submerged in water or in an accident you can detach the headrest and can use the metal part to break the wind screen. 3. The blue side of eraser.  Did you know that the blue part of an eraser is used to clean writing on the wall or on any hard surface while the red or white one is used to clean writing  on paper. 4. Black hole between flash and camera.  The tiny hole is a microphone which record the ambient noise, not your voice, because whe...

There is always a second Honeymoon in a true love relationship

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There are affairs and relationship. Everyone of  them is different, and each journey is unique, but most love stories will go through these 10 phases at one point or another. 1. The pleasure meeting you. At the movies,party,place of work campus,on flight,where ever the meet-cute is the first time two people meet. Maybe it goes somewhere right then, maybe it doesn’t and maybe it isn’t even cute, but the meet-cute is something you will always remember because it is the first time you laid eyes on him or her. or could talk to that crush ....Nice meeting you. but you have been thinking of this new found love. Advertisement 2. The “get to know you” phase This is the stage where he can do nothing wrong in your eyes and vice versa. It is a perfect world full of excitement, questions and firsts. 3. Being inseparable The timid world of texting, flirting and playing the dating game comes to an end and the two of you are now inseparable. You don’t have to call him on Monday t...

10 Amazing facts of life that you may not know

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 Here are some interesting and amazing facts of life that you may not know .  so let's see the facts.. 1. Clocks will never occur in dreams -  Each time you look at a clock it will tell a different time and the hands on the clock won’t appear to be moving as reported by lucid dreamers.  2. It took approximately 2.5 million blocks to build the Pyramid of Giza.  3. Panama is the only country  in the world where one can see the sunrise on the Pacific ocean and the sunset on the Atlantic ocean.  4. If you pour a handful of salt into a full glass of water, the water level will actually go down rather than overflowing the glass.  5. Fast food restaurants use colors like yellow, red and orange because these are the colors that stimulate hunger. 6. High atmospheric pressure affects the bubbles of your coffee. If the bubbles are close to the center, you can expect it to rain or have stormy weat...

The sacred art of kissing in the African culture.

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What is kissing  💋 It is the art of pressing one's lips against another person in a passionate way. Kissing is sensual and romantic and it keeps people together. It is not a common practice in some African cultures. Kissing isn’t always about smacking your lips together and sharing saliva … no, there is so much more to kissing than that. So, what is it that makes for an exquisite kiss between two lovers? Is it the actual technique? Is it the energy exchange? Is it fast & passionate, or slow and lingering … or somewhere in-between?or simply..... Show of affection between siblings.  Kisses are wayyyyyyy more enjoyable than others. Yes, it does take two to tango but kissing is foreign to us Africans it is a borrowed culture. Kissing can also  be deceptive. ln our society today deception is the order of the day. People kiss and show fake affection just to achieve their shelfish ambition male and female inclusive. It starts with a kiss. Types of kisses. ...

5 Types of men you should never fall in love with

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 Ladies there some men you should try as much as possible to avoid if you don't want to experience heart break and disappointments. There are a lot of guys out there with commitment issues. And if you're dating one of them, it's no good for you. Your relationship is going nowhere The sooner you realize this, the sooner you'll experience  real happiness and love. Below is a list of guys that no one (of any age) shouldn’t spend a second with once you figure them out. Don’t try to change them. Don't try to help them overcome their commitment phobia. Instead, just run! Run as fast as you can, After all, the more time you spend with the wrong person, the more time it will take you to meet the right person.but to my personal experience some ladies don't like nice guys, they prefer playboys and rough guys that will manhandle and disappoint them,they will start crying out loud that are bad, irresponsible and not ready for commitment. These are the five types...

How Jesus female disciples who supported His work were wiped from history

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JESUS Christ’s female disciples made Christianity possible but their pivotal role was wiped from history for one single reason. Mary Magdalene (above in 1835 Alexander Ivanov painting) portrayed in popular culture as a prostitute is historically inaccurate. JESUS Christ had prominent female disciples who made his religious mission possible, but their pivotal role was wiped from history. Mary Magdalene who, despite popular culture, was not a prostitute, a noblewoman named Joanna and a healer called Salome were among his close circle. And Joanna, who had been married to an official of Judaean Roman leader Herod Antipas’ noble clique, funded Jesus’ itinerant travelling band. Biblical historians Joan Taylor and Helen Bond have undertaken new research which convinces them that the 12 disciples actually travelled in pairs with their female partners. And by forensically examining the New Testament, the pair unearth a trail of clues they believe will rewrite the origins of fait...

A Bad Marriage is as Unhealthy as Drinking and Smoking

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Couples who continuously disagree have poorer health.   A man sleeping in bed with an unhappy woman,sleeping with backs turn against each other or the woman sleeping on the couch is an example of an unhappy relation. A bad marriage, with frequent conflicts, could be as detrimental to your health as smoking cigarettes or drinking alcohol.  Disagreeing over multiple topics – such as children, money, in-laws and leisure activities – had negative health implications. I followed married couples over the first 16 years of marriage and compared the subjective health of wives and husbands who reported a greater number of conflict topics to those who reported fewer,” Marital conflict negatively affected health for both husbands and wives, although there was a greater impact of conflict on men than women. Couples who agreed with each other more experienced health benefits early in their relationships, but this protective effect most often wore off in the later years of...

Things a woman can learn about a man from his friends

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 An adage says, “Show me your friends, and I’ll show you who you are.” Birds of the same feather folk together.  People who have friends who are incarcerated are more likely to get arrested themselves. Simply put, you are who you hang out with — and there’s nothing wrong with judging someone by their entourage. Ladies believe it or not, studies have shown that you can learn a lot from the friends of the guy you are dating .The following things have strong links to his entourage and can tip you off to his real personality. Here's what his friends can tell you about him. 1. His likelihood of cheating Do you know if his buddies have side chicks...!  If they do, don’t date him! Studies show that one of the biggest predictors of cheating is whether his friends are currently having affairs on their wives and girlfriends. 2. His attitude toward women in general Birds of a feather tend to flock together, especially when it comes to attitudes on women. Misogynistic men ten...

Realistically it is a crime to be poor.

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In a democratic  society as we have today why do we choose to penalize the poor? A poor man is sent to jail for stealing a fowl  not that it is right  for him to steal but he had no money to hire a lawyer to fight his case so he is punished for being poor. While others go unpunished for stealing billions of public money,fraud and murder. So a poor man's situation is the case of the animal farm.   The poor are being marginalized,unlike in the developed society all the social amenities are available which makes  It easier to get a job and work and make a living and get the basics of life. but in Nigeria the poor are denied their own share of what also rightfully belongs to them. Government policies benefits only the rich the few meant for the poor is being hijacked by corrupt individuals in government.  What a pity... As far back as I can remember only Jesus fought for the poor.  The poor has no voice.  My assumption.   ...

Things You Must Treasure in Life

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There are specific things in our lives that we must treasure, cherish protect and value, if we must enjoy our God given  life.  1. You must treasure your life. Yes you Should; And why shouldn't you.  everybody deserves comfort,balance in their lives.Life is one of the greatest gifts God has given to man,It's a privilege to mankind to live,experience then eventually one day die and return to his creator. WE should treasure it,it is our right and moral obligation. 2.You must value your  Name. The greatest treasure  a person  can acquire is a  good  name. Good character is more important than how skilled you are. The key to success in business and one’s personal life is relationship building. If people like, trust, respect and believe in you; they will do anything for you. And, when you pass and they talk about you they will say…”they are somebody because you helped make their lives better.” You must always desire a good name. Have you ...

Eye catchy Hotel where you have to climb 60,000 steps to reach

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I love travelling.Places had always love to visit are Hotels with incredible , breath taking views and fantastic food. This hotel is unique. People who travel to other places and like to stay in hotels  will enjoy this place. Many hotels around the world are famous for its beautiful looks as well as for its tasty food. During traveling, you may have also stayed in many hotels where you may not need to take a long  walk,But to get to this hotel you are going to take an unusual long walk and climb many stairs. So let's know some more interesting things about this hotel. You have to climb 60'000 steps to reach to the Jade Screen Hotel built on China's Huangshan Mountain. This mountainous hotel is considered one of the world's most beautiful and stunning hotels. To reach this hotel built on the Yellow Mountains, you have to go through the mountainous roads, which is not less than any trekking. All the modern facilities are available in this hotel. Th...