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 Image  ..google  Do you know someone, ?anyone, who makes you work for their attention? People who only call back or make time for you when they need something from you, or make you feel bad about yourself. Does this sound familiar? 1. Stay away from anyone who makes you feel like you're hard to love. Are you the type that 'beg' people to love you or for a relationship.? Loving you should be effortless! If there is someone who makes you feel like it's an effort to be around you or make time for you then it's time for you to move on. Find someone who makes it look like that loving you is the most effortless and pleasurable thing for them as it truly is. 2. Stay away from anyone who makes you feel like you're a burden. You're not a burden! If there is someone who makes you feel like you're a burden and they're doing you a favor by hanging around you, stop putting up with them. Nobody is lowering their standards by being with you, ...

Writer Allison Ramirez has turned her vaginal secretions into a spellbinding perfume to attract men. Chemicals known as pheromones in the body are believed to play a massive role when it comes to attraction. Upon research she discovered that back in the day all one had to do was "stick a finger down there and then use said finger to dab your 'natural perfume' on your pulse points". History books also reveal courtesans of medieval Europe used it as a method of seduction. Thinking it too "uncivilized" to just dab around the body, she reached out to a perfume maker to create her own one of a kind scent. Essential oils like rose, cinnamon, aniseed and benzoin she was told have aphrodisiac qualities and would mix well with her contribution. In the end Ramirez decided to make her perfume with cedar, rose and civette. She then decided to test her "secret weapon" on a few dates. Ramirez was happy to report they were pretty successfu...

We have been told again and again the harmful effects of stress. It may seem like you can do nothing about stress. There will never be more hours in a day, bills won't stop coming up, work and family responsibility will always be demanding. But you are in control of your life and taking the charge of your life style, emotions, thoughts and the way you deal with problems. No matter how stressful your life is you can take steps to release the pressure and lead a happy life. 1.Identify the source of stress in your life There may be stress of changing job, moving or going through a divorce, worried about the deadlines. How do you cope with stress? Many people start smoking, drinking, cutting from family and start bingeing on junk food or taking out stress on others. Avoid unnecessary stress by choosing the 4 A's. Avoid - Learn how to say "no". Learn you limits and stick to them whether it is professional or personal. Avoid people who stress you out. If t...

- A man has sued his wife after laying his eyes on her face without make-up for the first time - According to Emirates 247 he felt cheated as his wife looked very beautiful on the wedding day yet so different the following morning An African man has taken his new wife to court after setting his eyes on her natural face for the first time. The man is reported to have woken up the morning after their wedding to find a different person lying by his side who at first he thought was a thief. He felt deceived, thus suing the wife for fraud, trauma and 'psychological suffering. He  is seeking Ksh 1.6 million. The couple is Algerian.  What make-up can do. See faces of some celebrates with and without makeup. P

Jesus Christ said that you must be perfect just as your father in heaven is perfect.. but this is a far cry from what is happening in the church today.  God warned us of those who would fall away! Look the whole message is, is that God wants us to have our eyes and mind on Him not others! Our Lord Jesus rebuked the Apostle Peter for worrying about what theApostle John was going to do, Jesus said, what is it to you? Jesus continued with telling Peter follow me! The children of Israel failed often looking to others and when it came to their end and no way out they cried to the one true and living God they always knew and said these words, “neither know what we to do: but our eyes are upon you (2 Chronicles 20:12). When our eyes are on God He gives us sight to see in the light of Him. Looking at sinful man distorts our vision and darkens everything! I want to encourage you to read the Bible especially the “Epistles of Paul The Apostle” who gives Jesus’ instruction and comman...

Smart people are generally great achievers, successful in business and family, and positive of mind. They have trained themselves to squeeze every drop of brain juice within, to make manifest their talents.  THEY ARE NOT TALKATIVES The first sign of smart people is that they are not very talkative. They use words deliberately after thinking and not just blabber around. They only engage themselves in good and meaningful conversations other than that they just listen to people around them and gather educational information THEY ARE MULTI TALENTED They don’t only specialize in a single task. Smart people are active in many fields at once because it broadens their mind and get them closer to feeding their curiosity about everything. THEY ARE GOOD AT MULTI-TASKING They can easily have a balanced life between home and work and still take out time for personal activities and health. Smart people know how to live a perfect balanced life while giving every activity their 10...

This weird story happened in India. The faint-hearted should desist from reading this! The horrendous way this crime was committed will leave you not just aghast but will also fill you with repulsion and scorn - to say the least An unemployed alcoholic man demanded money to buy alcohol from his mother. And when she refused to give him any, the son stabbed the woman to death. Not stopping at this, he cut out her intestines and her heart and apparently ate the latter after seasoning it with pepper and chutney. Sunil Kuchakurni, 35, went to visit his mother Yelava, 65, at her home in Mahawala Vasant, in Kolhapur, Maharashtra, in India. He asked for cash, and became angry when his mother said ‘no’. He suddenly got a knife from the kitchen and stabbed her. What he did after this was ghastly – and that’s an understatement. Neighbours reportedly saw him walking out of the house with blood dripping from his hands approximately an hour after they heard screams and informed the...

In today's world nobody wants to be alone. We like to be with people we care about and love, some leave us while some want to Stay with us forever. Most  people fall in love with the opposite gender because they like certain qualities in them and they get attracted by what the opposite sex say or do.  So  these are some qualities women see in men that attract the women most. Masculinity Masculinity and a combination of qualities  such as fortitude, generosity, courage, and nobility. This is a set of traits that smart women can’t resist. Good Sense Of Humor A funny joke is a great thing . However, too many jokes may not help you to make a good impression. You will be nothing more than a clown to her, and she won’t take you seriously. But if you have a good sense of humor, you are lucky most women associate this quality with a high level of intelligence. Romantic A romantic man is something women can’t resist. He turns her life into a nonstop cele...

 In "general terms "....... Sometimes you will get shocked that the lady who love to enjoy intimacy, play love and even have sex  start ignoring the relationship. Intimacy and making love is part of every healthy relationship, but what happens when your partner don't support you. When your spouse starts rejecting sex and intimacy is it right. There are various reason behind this. Lets examine some of them... When she is angry Most women refrain from making love when they are pissed off with their partner. Women treat sex as a favour to men. So technically, she is punishing you by not sleeping with you.This is dangerous especially for couples. Ego war Just like men, men have male ego, women have female ego. That is why, they do not give in to sex and intimacy when they feel their ego has been hurt. It is a way of asserting her freedom from male domination. Maintaining interest Just as men like to chase, women around . If she allows you into her bed ...

Science says that the body has some pretty sneaky ways of tipping an individual off when it comes to love.  From staring at the person of interest, to think about them all the time, the body lets of little signs that a person is in love Being in love is one of the best feelings ever. While some just find their partner, and know that they are destined to spend their lives together, there are yet others who are never sure if it is love or just mere infatuation. However, fear not, the body has some pretty sneaky ways of tipping an individual off when it comes to love by telling them whether the feelings they have for an individual are more than just a passing phase. Here are the tell-tale signs that in all probability, you are in love. Can’t stop staring at him/her: If your partner catches you quite often staring at them with no reason at all, in all probability, you are head over heels in love. Eye contact indicates that you are fixated on something, so if your eyes meet...

We all need to have a sense of direction and meaning in life. So purposeful living is knowing where and why you are going. But how do we know our purpose in life? Is there a way to find out?There is much more we need to do than praying to know our purpose in life.  Recognize your Inner Purpose This is the first key to finding your purpose in life. The first step is to know that whatever we are doing now is existing. Your job or business is just a means of earning the existence. Most of our time and effort is spent in this. However, are we really happy doing this? Each day, we need to ask ourselves about that one thing that will make us really happy. What we have been doing so far is a selfish purpose. It is only about ourselves and our loved ones. Life requires sacifice. To reach out to others. Be of help, then your own life will have meaning and purpose remember Jesus Christ came so that we may receive salvation. And you will agree that it is only temporary in nat...

 Sleeping together in marriage is not just about making love. Sex is a part of married life but there are many more important reasons why married couples should be sleeping together.These days, married couples are not sleeping together for a number of reasons. For example, they have different work timings and do not want to disturb each other while they leave for work. Sleeping together in a marriage seems to have less relevance now; it is more like a formality. But you will surprised at how not sleeping together can actually ruin your marriage bit by bit. Married couples should be sleeping together for many different reasons. Intimacy in a marriage is of many types. And sleeping together helps you to work on these types of intimacy in a marriage. Here are some very important reasons why you should be sleeping together for your marriage to be on the right track.Here are some reasons behind sleeping together is essential for marriage. Reasons why sleeping together is essenti...

 Nina skye A school teacher at a Christian kindergarten in Los Angeles, California, lost her job after admitting to appearing in porn videos in exchange for $2,500. 21-year-old Nina Skye said that she decided to tell the public about her side job because she really likes the adult entertainment industry. Skye loves to meet cool people and enjoys having sex with them. Skye got pulled into the porn industry after being offered $2,500 for each video shoot. Skye has sex with men and women. Skye’s employers offered her a pay raise to stop working as an adult actress, but she rejected them. The woman, who “loves teaching children and loves to have sex,” was warned that she will not be able to stay at the Christian school if she continues her gigs in porn videos. After Skye refused to give up on her successful porn career, she was fired from the school. Skye complained that she cannot understand why her employers would care about her side job, but her colleagues said tha...

 Image: google  There are many factors which affect and shape the dynamics of every relationship. A good example of such factors is routine.Some couples survive the boredom by taking the necessary steps.There are various ways in which couples can spice up their relationship again and enjoy the steam and passion.Here are some reasons why relationships get boring. Reasons why relationships get boring are: 1.Marriage: Relationship experts opine that marriage could be one factor that brings boredom into the couple. Before marriage, a relationship is still away from the mundane things but after marriage when a couple starts living under one roof, boredom easily creeps in as the mystery of romanticism is over. 2.Pregnancy: After giving birth to children and carrying the burden of responsibilities some couples totally get frustrated and bored. Well, in such a case, a conscious effort should be made to make the relationship interesting again. 3.Old Age: Some ageing couples...

Trust is not only the most important component for a healthy relationship but also matters for a good sex life  (Photo: Pixabay) Sex drive is extremely important for young couples as it can have a major impact in modern day relationships. A lack of sex drive can not only ruin relationships for an individual but also cause a lot of stress for both partners. While maintaining a healthy sex drive is extremely important, focussing on things that can kill libido is the key to keep the spark alive. While sexual issues for men with ageing have been under the spotlight, an expert reveals lesser known things that can deprive women of their sex drive. 1. Sexuality suppressed by family The kind of environment one grows up with including attitude of the family towards sex and norms in society are crucial in shaping a woman’s sex drive. In a society like ours where social or cultural considerations rule out sex as bad and something to be afraid of sexual exploration is off the ca...

 Source: Google Men are no expert at handling pregnant women. Luckily for you, there are 9 things you need to know about how to handle pregnant women. 1. Feed Her Constantly  Pregnant women are always hungry. Feed your pregnant wife as soon as she says she is hungry because when she says she is hungry, she means every word of it. You don't want to be around a hungry pregnant woman, do you? Consider yourself a food vending machine for the next 9 months. 2. Her Food Is Always Off-limits Your wife might have been comfortable sharing her food before she got pregnant. But never ever take food from a pregnant woman's plate, unless you want all hell to break loose! yes I mean every word  i say,they don't joke with food when pregnant.Never tell her she likes food. 3. Be Ready To Gain Weighting A pregnant woman is bound to have some cravings and we all know that. But what you might not know is that the man gains weight too, simply because he will have no choice b...

As good as it might feel, don't try and get even. Whether your partner makes out with someone else or has a months-long affair, being cheated on hurts. But that doesn’t mean the relationship isn’t worth repairing, a choice that is yours alone to make — there will always be those friends and family who insist that you leave, but only you can decide what’s right for you (got that, Mom?). "Monogamy is not easy, and it’s more difficult for some people than others," and while infidelity is painful, "[a relationship] does usually get better when people are committed and they’re working hard to establish a trust and are truly remorseful."  many couples  have even developed stronger connections post-cheating (although, yes, it’s generally easier to do that before you happen to see a text that reads "I miss your body baby xo" pop up on their phone). However, all this comes with a giant "but." As you move forward together, some behaviors that...

Girls from rich families like putting on skimpy  short and tight clothes than girls from middle class or poor family. Why is this so.... Everyone is saying rich girls are open minded thats why they are wearing less clothes, since when being open minded becomes equal to less clothes. I am more open minded, so should I go around wearing only my underwear? I believe being open minded has nothing to do with clothes, what it has to do with is mentality. See,rich girls know they are the top 1% of our society, so they constantly need other people to remind this, that they are superior and needs attention (call this a princess feeling) ,what rich girls can do to get attention? Yes, wear less clothes. See wearing less clothes in Nigerian cities such as Abuja, Lagos, port harcourt  is the best way to get some eyeball gaze points,but its the usual thing in the western world no man will gaze at you lustfully.  This is the same reason why some Phd people act so cocky, they con...

Many a time, abuse happens in front of children and women feel humiliated. Before they realise it, they are trapped in the relationship.  Pop singer Rihanna became the poster girl for domestic violence in 2009 when a picture of her battered face was leaked online. But when she decided to get back together with Chris Brown — her abuser — many of us couldn’t wrap our heads around it. Women have died in such situations especially in Africa. Years later, this one question remains a mystery: Why do so many women, especially those who are financially independent, choose to stay in abusive relationships? Here's what psychiatrists have to say. “Many women have seen some form of abuse in their family. So they grow up thinking, it is part and parcel of life and tolerate it,” says Dr Rajiv Mehta, psychiatrist at Sir Ganga Ram Hospital. “Then there is the false sense of hope. Women believe their partner loves them and that the abuse happened in the heat of the moment or under...

Of course it is a terrible feeling when your relationship has ended. You feel hurt, angry and very sad. But, it doesn’t mean that you can’t be happy after a break up. Always look on the bright side! Here are the 11 reasons why you should be happy after a break up.  You have more time for yourself. For taking baths, doing masks, nail polish, watching TV series and having quality time with your friends. Those things you couldn’t do often, because your relationship required a lot of time.  You decide what you want to eat and don’t have to discuss this. Want to eat sushi tonight? Then you go eat sushi tonight. Invite your addicted sushi girlfriends! Finally you can watch chick flicks. He did not like being forced to watch Mean Girls, so you did him a favor and just watched another movie.  You have the time for your friends. You may have said no to your friends too often, because you already had a date planned with you boy … You can still wear your beautiful ...

Should a Christian display romance, walking and holding hands in public. What does the Bible say about romance. Although there are no references to the word romance in the Bible, there are 281 mentions of love. Since the dictionary definition for romance is "ardent emotional attachment or involvement between people; a love affair," these two terms can sometimes be used interchangeably. But the true meaning of love, as defined in the Bible, has been corrupted in the common usage of our English language and society. Most often, love is confused with infatuation - that elated, "high" feeling we get when we "fall in love." This kind of "love" is something that lasts typically a short time and, unless replaced by true love, results in broken relationships. The Bible covers two types of love: agape and phileo. Agape love is represented by God's love for us. It is a non-partial, sacrificial love best demonstrated by the gift in John 3:16...

Am not encouraging young people  in relationships to indulge in premarital sex,this article is just my personal opinion, observation and research ... This is not for  you.        I would advise young people to be careful of how they apply sex in their relationship..it can destroy a relationship and even you.... Never the less sex is important in a relationship especially among couples.. Sex is a topic that men and women love to talk about. It’s something that everyone thinks about – even when they’re not sexually active. it’s very important in a relationship. In fact, it’s just as imperative as trust and communication. Sex is something that’s different for men and women. It’s a universal form of pleasure and a way to de-stress. It also gives you a level of closeness with your significant other. Here are 7 reasons why sex is important in a relationship. 1. PASSION, PASSION, PASSION The best relationship you can have is with some...